Sexual Intimacy in Intimate Relationships

Greetings and welcome to our on-going series on "Dare To Be You", which gives insight into reclaiming the ability to be Who You Really Are. (If you are new to this series, we would like to recommend that you consider enjoying the entire series, which can be found in the archives).

We will now finally bring up the topic of sexual intimacy in a relationship which is of course another important topic.  As you very well know by now, you have been inheriting the belief systems of others and in the area of sexuality it is even more apparent!  We are made to believe that it is normal that people who are born on this planet should be behaving according to other people’s belief systems, regarding sexuality….depending on what region or religion they are born into, whether this culture or a different one, this family or another one, this society or another, whether a male or female and so on and so forth. 

Have you ever taken the time to decide what your belief systems are on sexuality?  We are not taught in school nor at home that we have to decide for ourselves what our true belief systems are on every topic including sexuality.  We are simply going along trying to figure out how to deal with intimacy and how to be in relationships with others, with inherited beliefs, without  really taking the time to decide what sexuality is for us.  What do you believe regarding sexuality?  Do you agree with what you are being told?  Many of you don’t agree, yet you have not really taken the time to decide what your belief system should be.

It is very important for you to have clarity.  You create your 3D reality according to your beliefs.  If your beliefs are not clear, you cannot expect that your 3D reality matches something that is not clear!  This is like an agreement. Before you enter in any sort of relationship, like in a business one, you write down the terms of agreement!  In that sense, you have to take time to decide how sexuality is going to be in your belief system.  You should take the time to ensure that it is aligned with Who You Really Are and not with the way you have been accepting it all your life. 

The exercise that we are going to do together will bring up the importance of having practical tools that you can use to look at anything in your life.  If you notice that an area of your life is not working, that what you are attracting is not exactly what you are wanting, then stop and ask yourself:  ‘Do I even really know what my belief system is regarding this particular topic?’  Once you have decided what the terms of this agreement regarding this particular topic are, then your 3D reality is going to change because your inner being, your inner consciousness and the place from where you create is much clearer. 

I also want to bring up another important aspect:  when you are in a relationship (intimate or not) where you are sharing your inner being  (Who You Really Are) you are also allowing yourself to be.  You are allowing your human aspect to come out to deal with your humanity when share it with another person or other beings.  So when it comes to sexuality, the subject of you being in this physical body, in this physical form also comes up.  Because you have to be Who You Really Are, your true essence and your true divine self has to show itself through a human form.  Suddenly all of the issues that we have with the human body and the human form come up and this has to do with accepting our physical form, our physical body and our physicality. 

When you go deeper on an unconscious level, you will find that you are struggling with the human form, with your physicality.  You are starting to get in touch with Who You Really Are as an essence, as a divine spark, as a divine expression, as an aspect of Creator; you are more and more conscious of your spirituality, of your connection to Source and Creator and yet you are still holding a physical form, a human body that is a temporary expression.  You are faced with having to accept that.  You are focusing on your spirituality and your divinity and suddenly that doesn’t seem to match with being in human form and the physical body.  This brings up confusion about how to be this pure divine spiritual essence while still having this human form.  And then comes up the belief systems that maybe sexuality is not spiritual or it is not acceptable to mix spirituality with sexuality… 

All of these conflicts about sexuality and the physicality and mixing that with being a spiritual person have to do with our humanity, in other words, accepting ourselves as also being human.  Some of you are very much connected to the human form, but many are not.  So the human body, the human form, makes us feel awkward and uncomfortable.  Are we giving up something, are we violating our spiritual connection?  Are we doing this right?  Should we be doing this?  And so on…

In our next communication, we will see how to fix this situation in order to allow your physical body to be whatever it is and wants to be…

Those of you who want to speed up your awakening process while expanding your consciousness, reconfiguring your DNA to a pure divine blueprint and while having fun can join the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program.  You will get a set of healing sessions & meditations every month to listen to individually as well as in group.

GLOBAL CONNECTIONS PROGRAM

Until our next communication, for those who are serious and want to go deeper, you need to clear the way by releasing the unconscious blocks, the fears, the old programming that no longer serves you anymore. We recommend to visit our vast library containing powerful healing sessions and do them. These are powerful tools to help you clear your blocks and fears and they will support and help you on a higher level. No true self-realization can be achieved without releasing your unconscious beliefs and fears. This is why I deeply encourage you to do as much healing and clearing as you can. These tools have been developed so that anybody can have access to them easily by joining the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program and/or choosing any individual healing sessions from the library:

Addictions

Physical Disorders & Imbalances

Mental Disorders & Imbalances

Cellular Reprogramming

Healing Circles & Meditations

Guidance System Series

Extracted from the live series 'Dare To Be You!' To listen to the entire series, go to: Dare To Be You!

To participate to Caroline's monthly activities (group healing sessions on the Internet, free webcasts, healing circles and online classes), check the  OMnium Calendar

Understanding Intimate Relationships

Greetings and welcome to our on-going series on "Dare To Be You", which gives insight into reclaiming the ability to be Who You Really Are. (If you are new to this series, we would like to recommend that you consider enjoying the entire series, which can be found in the archives).

So before we get into our guided exercise, I would like to address two other factors in the topic of relationships; and these are ‘control’ and ‘identity’.  As we begin to share our inner being with other individuals, we might feel that we are losing control of our personality. The human mind makes you believe that you have to be in control of your packaging so to speak – how you appear to others.  You have to be in control and you should not allow yourself to lose that control at any point in time.

In this setting of being in an intimate relationship, where you are simply wanting to share your inner being and simply trying to be Who You Really Are, there is this belief system that you are giving up the control over how you are appearing to the other person.  This need to control how you appear to others is very much fabricated by the human belief system.  The collective consciousness and this belief system tell you that you have to appear this way or to behave that way.  Therefore, the control issue is not aligned.  If you are truly at peace with who you are, you don’t need to control anything; you don’t need to control yourself or to control others:  you have nothing to control.  You are in control because you are simply at peace with who you are.  Having to keep a certain control is really a misalignment that needs to be worked on.  We need to release the need to control everything.

Your identity is another point that is very much connected to this intimate relationship topic.  You feel that if you open up deeply with someone else, you are losing something, perhaps losing who you really are because your feelings begin to change and you get dragged into the other person’s expectations of you.  This is also a part of the mind control; that you are losing something, giving away something by being Who You Really Are.  If you share your inner being with someone else in an intimate setting, that makes you lose something.  There is something very confusing happening in this case about the energetic exchange between two people.  In other words, as you are coming into an intimate setting with another human being, we can say that the two energy fields start to merge together and you start to interact in a way where your feelings are shared by each other.  You are interacting energetically and electromagnetically when you come together with another being.  And so in that sense, it is not that you are losing anything.  It is simply that you are merging with this other consciousness and sometimes you are so close together that you can’t even differentiate between your feelings and their feelings and this can create some confusion for both of you.

Therefore, you start to get confused and you ask yourself:  ‘Wait a minute, what is it that I am feeling?  Am I feeling my feelings?  Or am I feeling their feelings?  Or am I operating out of my own fears, my own belief systems or am I feeling their fears and belief systems?’  There is a huge amount of confusion because of this very natural, organic, energetic exchange that happens.  In that sense, it is true that you feel that this merging is confusing.  So, because you can’t even tell where you begin and where you end so to speak, it gives you the impression or the illusion that you have lost your own boundary.  You have given part of your boundary to this other person because you can’t even think for yourself. 

And because there is an organic, natural phenomenon that happens through this merging, the confusion is also quite real.  The good news is that it can be fixed.  If you understand that this is something natural, because of the energies coming together, then you can allow these energies to merge together. You can, through intent and through other exercises, make sure that you can still maintain your own identity, your own feelings, your own belief systems.  Also if you want to hold on to your own fears and make sure they are yours and not someone else’s, then you can also do that! 

But how can you do this if you are not clear yourself?  This is why we go back to the main issue of this whole series:  going back to reclaiming, focusing and owning Who You Really Are, your true essence!  If you are not clear on your inner being, your true essence and who you are really, then how can you create any sort of boundaries?  By boundary, I don’t mean separation; it simply means the clarity of Who You Really Are, your own identity.  All of this can get very confusing and this is why I would like to bring this up as an exercise; to go back and focus on how to differentiate Who You Really Are.  This is not only about sexuality, it is about all connections where you come in contact intimately with another being, where you open up deeply your own soul to another person.   Even these situations can bring confusion.   

If you can go back to understanding what the soul really is and how it really operates, then you have a better chance of owning it and operating from it.  And as you get used to doing that, you can come in contact with other individuals intimately (or not intimately) and you can still hold on to this identity.  You will create the relationship that you want because you are clear on Who You Really Are, you see. 

In our next communication, we will continue with the topic of sexuality and we will also be addressing the issue of being in a physical human body.

Those of you who want to speed up your awakening process while expanding your consciousness, reconfiguring your DNA to a pure divine blueprint and while having fun can join the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program.  You will get a set of healing sessions & meditations every month to listen to individually as well as in group.

GLOBAL CONNECTIONS PROGRAM

Until our next communication, for those who are serious and want to go deeper, you need to clear the way by releasing the unconscious blocks, the fears, the old programming that no longer serves you anymore. We recommend to visit our vast library containing powerful healing sessions and do them. These are powerful tools to help you clear your blocks and fears and they will support and help you on a higher level. No true self-realization can be achieved without releasing your unconscious beliefs and fears. This is why I deeply encourage you to do as much healing and clearing as you can. These tools have been developed so that anybody can have access to them easily by joining the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program and/or choosing any individual healing sessions from the library:

Addictions

Physical Disorders & Imbalances

Mental Disorders & Imbalances

Cellular Reprogramming

Healing Circles & Meditations

Guidance System Series

Extracted from the live series 'Dare To Be You!' To listen to the entire series, go to: Dare To Be You!

To participate to Caroline's monthly activities (group healing sessions on the Internet, free webcasts, healing circles and online classes), check the  OMnium Calendar

Be Who you really are in intimate relationships

Greetings and welcome to our on-going series on "Dare To Be You", which gives insight into reclaiming the ability to be who you really are. (If you are new to this series, we would like to recommend that you consider enjoying the entire series, which can be found in the archives.

I am sure you are very well aware that as you come into this human form, you are inheriting a massive amount of programming and belief systems from many others; from society, from your parents, from your educators, from the church and basically from everyone and everywhere. As you continue to be bombarded with these belief systems, at one point you don’t even know what your own belief systems are - who you really are - because you get busy and distracted in trying to perform and to fit into this programming - just to feel that you belong.

We are now going to focus on intimate relationships and how to express yourself in an intimate relationship setting. As you know by now, you create through your intent and your thoughts. However, most of the time, you only see the manifestation of these thoughts way down the road. The main idea is to be very clear on what you are asking for so that you can manifest quickly. The idea is not to manifest just anything, like changing careers, getting another job or getting a house and this or that; this is all 3D. What is really crucial is to go back to a place that is really authentic. You have been programmed with belief systems that aren’t really yours and from which you are creating your 3D reality. You need to go back to your true authentic self to then create, through your own belief systems, something that is really aligned with who you really are. In an upcoming communication, we will help you to shed some of the belief systems that are part of your creative process –from an energetic aspect – with a guided exercise. Then you will be able to really manifest your authentic essence, and from this authentic essence, you can create whatever it is that you want.

Intimate relationships are important because ultimately all relationships with others begin with the relationship with your own self. So what are intimate relationships? It is about feeling exposed to someone else. It is about letting go of any veil, any sort of image that is projected onto others. All of a sudden, all of these veils fall and you feel that the other person can see very deeply and clearly into who you really are. This is where the discomfort begins because you are suddenly exposing your true inner being to another person, allowing this person to see deep into your soul. Therefore they can see very clearly your fears, your weaknesses, your frustrations, they can see where you are failing and that is why you are so uncomfortable with this intimate relationship concept.

What happens then is that you are immediately tying that exposure with expectations. You start to feel that if you are going to open yourself up to this other person, truly allow them to see deeply into your soul, you are expecting a level of trust and so the concept of expectations and trust are deeply connected with any sort of intimate relationship. And of course, as you all know, very often the 3D reality, even though you have opened up very deeply to another human being, makes it still turn out that the relationship does not work out. Therefore your expectations are completely shattered and you begin to lose the trust associated with opening yourselves and sharing your true inner being with others. And this is where you start to create new blocks in addition to the other blocks that are related to opening up your true inner being to someone else.

Then it becomes even more complicated as you add to your own belief system new beliefs that tell you that you are not supposed to open up and show your inner being to anybody else because others cannot be trusted. And from here, you start another vicious circle that keeps you in a place of not opening your inner being, your true self to someone else, because it is dangerous and you cannot trust it. This is why it is a very important issue. This is not just about opening yourself in terms of sexuality, it is about trusting, being who you really are in an intimate setting with one person; it doesn’t matter who. It gives you the sense that it is very difficult down here in this human form to have a trusting relationship, and it is something that simply doesn’t work. So these new belief systems simply get stronger and stronger as you get older. Then you realize that an intimate relationship eventually keeps you going in the wrong direction.

It is not allowing you to be who you really are (your true essence) and allowing this inner being to be shared! That is why intimate relationships are very sacred, very beautiful, very unique, very powerful and important. Because this is the time you can truly be who you really are and allow this inner being or inner soul to be shared with someone else. This is also why we are using this topic to bring up the possibility for you to go back to a place of peace with who you really are. This will allow your inner being to simply be and to be shared without any shame, without any confusion, without any expectations.

It is important to realize that allowing your inner being to simply be with another being will eventually allow you to simply be with who you really are, everywhere in your life.

In our next communication, we will review two other aspect that address this topic –which are control and identity.  Thank you for joining us in these considerations.

Extracted from the live series 'Dare To Be You!' To listen to the entire series, go to: Dare To Be You!

Until our next communication, for those who are serious and want to go deeper, you need to clear the way by releasing the unconscious blocks, the fears, the old programming that no longer serves you anymore. We recommend to visit our vast library containing powerful healing sessions and do them. These are powerful tools to help you clear your blocks and fears and they will support and help you on a higher level. No true self-realization can be achieved without releasing your unconscious beliefs and fears. This is why I deeply encourage you to do as much healing and clearing as you can. These tools have been developed so that anybody can have access to them easily by joining the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS PROGRAM and/or choosing any individual healing sessions from the library:

Addictions

Physical Disorders & Imbalances

Mental Disorders & Imbalances

Cellular Reprogramming

Healing Circles & Meditations

Guidance System Series

To participate to Caroline's monthly activities (group healing sessions on the Internet, free webcast, healing circles and online classes), check the  OMnium Calendar

A Guided Exercise to Align to the Divine Flow of Source

In this communication, Caroline guides you through an exercise that will help you identify your current alignment in your social interaction to transmute it in a new way of being, a higher vibration that will allow you to be who you are.  She also answers some questions about your social interactions.  

A Guided Exercise to Align with the Divine Flow of Source

This exercise can be repeated as many times as needed to reach the new alignment that you are wanting.



Those of you who want to speed up your awakening process while expanding your consciousness, reconfiguring your DNA to a pure divine blueprint and while having fun can join the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program.  You will get a set of healing sessions & meditations every month to listen to individually as well as in group.


GLOBAL CONNECTIONS PROGRAM



Question 1:        How does drinking socially affect your alignment? I am finding that I use to enjoy wine with dinner but am no longer. 

Caroline:             Everything is about vibration.  The food and the drinks that you chose to take are a form of energy that you are ingesting in your body even though these items can be processed.  So your energy and the food are coming together and creating a vibration.  The vibration of alcohol is extremely low, it is around 0.5 Hz per second.  Your heart is supposed to be vibrating at 500 or 600 or 800 Hz and you are now putting into your body something that vibrates at 0.5.  Therefore, this will bring your cellular vibration to a very low place.  You have programmed yourself unconsciously with the belief system that says:  ‘When I drink, I relax and I feel better and I can socialize a lot better’.  It is only a belief system.  You didn’t come in as a baby with this; you didn’t have to drink to feel better.  Obviously you came in absolutely free of that drug or that substance and somehow you manage to be happy as a child.  So this is a programming that you can change. 

The more you do this work, the Connecting to Source exercise on a daily basis, the less you will be able to drink certain things, to eat certain food or to smoke and take drugs.  Many people have stopped smoking or drinking after many years, instantly and without any symptoms, because their vibration increased and the reprogramming was completed on a cellular level.  This is a typical example where this particular activity will simply cease to exist. 

And there is more: “It seems it is not going to be fun without drinking”.  That is also a belief system that if I stop drinking I am not going to be fun to be around.  This is a huge belief system that is imposed on us and so I recommend that you truly make a decision right now.  If you want to graduate from this human cycle and you want to do your work at the highest level, this is the time and you have the tools - no excuse!  You are here to master the human body and the human condition.  Make a choice:  do you want to be socially cool or do you want to be who you really are?  Do you want your cells to vibrate at the highest, purest form there is?  Do you want to bring Creator energy through you?  Do you want to be a super intelligent, perfectly aligned, beautiful, creating, loving type of being?  This is the time to decide and you will realize that you will be perfectly fine if you stop drinking alcohol.

Question 2:        How do I relate to a family member who is in such a negative place when I try to help him see the positive in life?

Caroline:             This is a question regarding your social interactions.  The question goes back to you, to who you really are.  You cannot fix others; you can only fix yourself. Whatever they do doesn’t affect you.  We will talk about relationships in our next segments.  In the meantime, you can become so strong and powerful in your authentic self that if you focus on you, it will not matter.  The other people will not affect you as much; this is what this work is about.

Question 3:        When we redo the exercise, will it adjust itself to a different experience?

Caroline:             Of course!  Let’s say today we will adjust a certain percentage, perhaps 45% or 30% or 90%.  We are going to adjust all of these things that you do all day long and then when you do the exercise again, if you did 60% the first time, the next time you will do the other 40% or you’ll do another 10%, until you are ready to be 100% aligned.  Just imagine and visualize the type of being that you will be.  Since the moment that you awake till the moment that you retire, every word that you say, everything that you do, every action that you take in the awakened state will be in perfect alignment, absolutely 100% authentic, vibrating at the highest, purest form.  That is the image, the intent and the goal that you should have with this work.   But be patient with yourself. You’ve been doing the same things for so long!  Do the work and let go of the outcome.

Question 4:        How do I recognize that I am faking myself out?

Caroline:             Yes!  How do you know?  This is the reason why you are going to do this in two different ways, either in a conscious way as you are going about your day and paying attention to every choice you do.  This is the easy one.  But sometimes, it is not so clear.  If you are not 100% sure, you simply allow your spirit self to guide you through it and to do the adjustment.  The exercise will bring more clarity.

Question 5:        What if I don’t recall being happy as a child?

Caroline:             It doesn’t really matter.  You can be happy now.  The point is now, the point is today.    In fact, we should stop worrying about what happened before and what is going to happen.   This is a major problem because we put our focus on something outside of us.  We are not there yet, we are not in the future and we’re not in the past.  We are here at this time, and guess what?  The reprogramming transcends time and space and you can reprogram something instantly.  It doesn’t matter what happened in your childhood.  What matters is what happens to you now, as of today.  You have to make the choice now.  It is up to you.  All you have to do is say ‘I choose this or not.’

Question 6:        What if I have a history of picking jobs that were wrong for me out of a fear, or really mistrust that the one I have right now is the right one, or mistrust what is coming for me?’

Caroline:             Again sometimes we are not going to be able to figure it out on our own.  That is why in this particular case, we will have to allow the higher consciousness to do the adjusting for us.

Question 7:        How do you quit your misaligned job when there are people that you are responsible for financially?

Caroline:               Again this is a belief system!  I am not saying you should quit anything at all!  I am saying that you should create the aligned job.  And so maybe, the misaligned job that you have is actually aligned but you are not seeing it that way and that’s why when you are going to your job, you feel horrible all day long because you are perceiving it as not the right job for you; this is one scenario.  Another scenario is that you are absolutely in the wrong job.  And I am not saying that you should quit your job.  I am telling you to create the aligned job, but you cannot create the aligned job if you feel miserable all day long.  Again, where you vibrate is where you create.  And so unless you change that vibration and you make that adjustment where you are today, the new aligned job is not going to show up!

Nobody is talking about quitting and stopping.  I am talking about transmuting and transitioning.  In fact, when you start to create from an aligned place, do you think you will be left out in the cold?  Do you think you are going to create something that will keep you without money?  On the contrary and this is precisely my point; when you are vibrating in the right place, you are in perfect alignment, therefore everything that you create is aligned!  Therefore you will be taken care of and you will be paying your bills and you will be having fun! 

Question 8:        What if I don’t like a lot of what is in my life?  Where do I begin?  It feels that a lot has to change or is it my general mind set?

Caroline:             Again when a lot of things in your life are not the way you want them or you don’t like them, it is for you to begin to adjust everything in your life so that everything starts to come in the way you want it.  If the changes are too drastic, it may be too much to change everything at once, but it really is your call.  You get to decide how you want that change to happen

Question 9:        What if the dullness is a relief? Don’t I get to take a break?

Caroline:             I am not sure what you mean by that exactly.  You think if you are not feeling anything, it is a break for you for not feeling aligned.  Even if you are taking a break, you should still be aligned.  So in other words, this is not about creating or giving you more work.  This is about aligning you, putting you in the light beam all the time, no matter what you do.  In fact, you don’t have to do anything!  You could be working or you could be having breakfast, going shopping or you could be doing nothing!  This is not about ‘doing’.  It is about alignment, it is about putting you in the divine flow alignment, so that whatever comes out of you, a conversation, a meal, a creative work, writing, signing, doing nothing, or playing with your pet.  Whatever comes out of you is aligned.  That is what I am talking about. 

Question 10:      When we become aware that we are misaligned, just by intending and connecting, we get back into that?

Caroline:             Yes, this is precisely it.

Question 11:      Is the physical reality that important? 

Caroline:             If you think that not having a job or not being able to pay a rent is your reality, then it is.  We are doing all of this because you want something, you want to feel good, not only spiritually and energetically, but you want your 3D reality to match that. I think what you are asking is:  ‘Is it that important that I interact with my 3D reality, if it is misaligned?’ and that’s precisely what I am telling you:  ‘Yes, it is! ’  Everything that is in 3D aspect that is my physical reality is an aspect of me, you see.  And so in that sense, yes it is important, because it is a reflection of where I am vibrating.

Question 12:      Can you include some comments on the frequency/tendency to isolate and avoid connections with others?

Caroline:             It depends on why this is happening.  If you feel that you need to isolate yourself because you want to find clarity, you want to be in alignment and you are having a hard time finding it when you have too many people in your house, then this is simply coming from your desire to be very connected.  In this case, it is not a problem.  But if you are making the choice because you cannot deal with some problems you have, then this is coming from the wrong place.  So the frequency or tendency to isolate depends on the reason and that is why there is not one answer. 

Let’s now get into the guided exercise which will help you identify the negative emotions related to your social interaction.  

Until our next communication, for those who are serious and want to go deeper, you need to clear the way by releasing the unconscious blocks, the fears, the old programming that no longer serves you anymore. We recommend to visit our vast library containing powerful healing sessions and do them. These are powerful tools to help you clear your blocks and fears and they will support and help you on a higher level. No true self-realization can be achieved without releasing your unconscious beliefs and fears. This is why I deeply encourage you to do as much healing and clearing as you can. These tools have been developed so that anybody can have access to them easily by joining the GLOBAL CONNECTIONS program and/or choosing any individual healing sessions from the library:

Addictions

Physical Disorders & Imbalances

Mental Disorders & Imbalances

Cellular Reprogramming

Healing Circles & Meditations

Guidance System Series

Extracted from the live series 'Dare To Be You!' To listen to the entire series, go to: Dare To Be You!

To participate to Caroline's monthly activities (group healing sessions on the Internet, free webcasts, healing circles and online classes), check the  OMnium Calendar

Readjusting or Reprogramming?

In our last communication, we explained why it is important to become aware of the significance of every apparently minor choice that you are making in your 3D reality.  This is about recognizing how to readjust yourself so that your choices about your social interactions, your friends and your environment are in a perfect alignment with the divine flow.  Especially in the social setting such as where you live, what you eat, where you shop, how you dress, how you pick your clothing - and about your friends, how do you pick up your friends?  Is this coming from an authentic real choice that is in perfect vibrational alignment with who you really are or are you just following something that is unconscious and deep inside yourself that makes all these choices without you being in control of this reality that is now manifesting?
 

So from a conscious point of view, this is an exercise that you can do easily and you will see very soon that the faster you become aware of these tiny choices and begin to adjust them, even minor adjustments, this will have a huge positive impact in your life.  You will put yourself back in the ‘light beam’ in perfect alignment with the divine flow. Everything that comes from that is for your highest good.  This is how you will continue to move forward on your higher path.

Sometimes you might wonder how it is possible to make an adjustment for certain situations.  Step one is simply to become aware.  In our next exercise, we are going to do a lot of adjusting to give you an idea of how this works.  But on your own, you can begin by stopping and saying:  ‘I am choosing to realign that into a place of joy or freedom (or whatever you want to feel) so that I am back in the proper alignment with the divine flow’.  Sometimes, it may be difficult to know how you are supposed to adjust.  For example, let’s assume you have a job that you don’t like.  After doing this work today, you are going to say: ‘OK I am noticing that I am not vibrating at a good place.  I feel resentment, I feel frustration, I don’t like my job’.  Do you think that you can just simply change those feelings into joy or fun and you will be done?  That you will be in alignment so you can keep that job and you can continue to do that same work because you think you’ve added the energy of joy or freedom so you can tolerate this job and keep it?  How do you know that this is enough?   Sometimes, nothing more than simply putting yourself back into alignment is going to be required for you to keep what you are doing and sometimes you will have to give it up because there might be a deeper problem with this situation.

For example, if you have to get up very early in the morning to take care of your children and you are realizing that you feel resentment and frustration, all you have to do is to pay attention to your resentment to change it into joy and focus on the love that you have for these children.  The next day, you will be able to keep the same duty and you are going to start to feel that you are really willingly doing this out of joy and fun and the frustration is going to simply dissolve.  In this particular case, all you had to do is to replace the negative or misaligned feeling with another vibration that is more aligned with who you are, with higher vibrations, so that you can continue to create positively.  You get to keep this activity by simply adjusting and aligning it properly.

But in other cases, a job for example, you may try to substitute or to adjust those negative feelings that you are having and the way you are vibrating every day to change that into a vibration that feels good and has a sense of freedom and alignment.  But it is very possible that in this particular case, this will continue to keep you in a fake misalignment place.  It is almost like a band aid!  You are giving the impression that the pain feels a little bit less or you think you have resolved the pain, but you are still keeping a job where it is the job itself that is misaligned.

Sometimes it is very difficult to find out what to adjust and how to adjust it because you have already created this job out of fear or a belief system that is misaligned.  Therefore, in addition to doing this work in a conscious manner, you will have to do some cellular reprogramming.  The reprogramming is going to go deep in the unconscious part of your mind and go back to the place that attracted the misaligned job or the misaligned relationship in the first place.  So in a conscious way, you are going to do this on your own time and on another level, you are going to address the unconscious creation portion as we will do in our next exercise.  We are going to reprogram these choices that are making up most of your 3D reality that are still misaligned and help you have clarity as to how to realign them.

In our next blog, we will answer some questions on this topic of social interactions and will do the guided exercise to reprogram the misaligned beliefs in your subconscious mind.

In the meantime, for those who are serious and want to go deeper, continue to clear the way by releasing the unconscious blocks, the fears, the old programming that no longer serves you anymore. We recommend to visit our vast library containing powerful healing sessions and do them. These are powerful tools to help you clear your blocks and fears and they will support and help you on a higher level. No true self-realization can be achieved without releasing your unconscious beliefs and fears. This is why I deeply encourage you to do as much healing and clearing as you can. These tools have been developed so that anybody can have access to them easily. The healing sessions are divided in categories and you will find them by clicking on the following links:

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